Need to add a little (or a lot of) spice to your sex life? BDSM games might be right for you! Whether you are brand new to BDSM or a seasoned enthusiast, BDSM games can be a fun and easy way to connect with your partner, experiment with something new or keep your bedroom routine from being too, you know, routine.
Don’t let the term BDSM intimidate you; it’s just another way to play, sexually speaking. Frankly, if you enjoy playing games in general, it’s just a hop, skip, and jump to enjoying some BDSM games!
Don’t know where to start? Have no fear! Today we are going to talk about some fun and easy BDSM games that you can try tonight!
Tie One (Blindfold) On
Have you ever heard people say that when you take away one sense, the remaining senses are heightened? Why not put that idea to use in the bedroom? Use a silk scarf, a tie, or even a sleep mask to blindfold your partner (or you! Just not both of you at once, someone should be able to see) and let them be completely at your mercy, enjoying all the sensations without being able to see what is going on.
Show a Little Restraint
Restrain your partner’s hands and take control of the action (with consent, of course). If you are new to restraints, use something as simple as the belt from a bathrobe. When tying your partner in place, be sure to leave space between the skin and the restraint (two fingers’ width is a good rule of thumb) so as to avoid nerve damage. If you find you want to play with restraints regularly, you might eventually want to get a set of cuffs or an under bed restraint system.
Play with Sensation
Explore different sensations by gathering up a collection of different items: a feather, a leather belt, something furry, etc. (heck, even your nails will do!) and running them over your partner’s skin, allowing them to drink in the different sensations. You can combine this one with restaurants or a blindfold for an extra-exciting experience.
Be Cool As Ice
While we are playing with sensations, we should probably mention temperature play. Applying something cold to your partner’s body can be a fun part of any bondage game. You can use a sex toy made of steel, glass, or ceramic, which, if you run it under cold water, will transfer the temperature by running it over sensitive body parts. You can even incorporate regular ice cubes by running them along the spine or actress the nipples.
Take Control, Remote Control
Personally, I think sex toys are always a fun addition to any sex play, but when we talk about wearable adult sex toys with remote controls, they become especially fun for BDSM games. By giving the remote to a partner while you wear the toy. You can stay at home or take your show on the road. The partner wielding the remote decides on the toy’s mode and speed while the partner wearing the sex toy tries to maintain their composure. If you are interested in edging, it can be fun to bring the sex toy wearing almost all the way to orgasm and then back off.
Act Like Strangers
If you want to go all out, you can try a little stranger role play. This fun BDSM game brings together role play, sexy dressing up, stranger sex, and BDSM for an explosive experience. Now, the catch is that you have to do a bit more advanced planning than for the other games on this list, but it should be super fun.
You and your partner can head (separately) to a public place where you will “meet,” flirt, and eventually get it on. If you want to add a bit of dominance and submission to the game, you can make it a rule that the submissive partner must approach the dominant partner and attempt to win them over. Stranger role play can take you out of your comfort zone in a totally thrilling but ultimately completely safe way.
After the Games are Over
In BDSM play, it is quite common for the submissive partner to experience something of a crash after a powerful sex scene or bondage game. This is where aftercare comes in. This is when the dominant partner provides the submissive one with some TLC. This is a good time to cuddle up and relax, maybe grab some water or snacks, and definitely take some time to touch base with each other about the experience you just shared. Did you enjoy it? Why or why not? What did you like best? What would you be interested in experimenting more with? Good communication is important in all sexual interactions, but it is especially important when BDSM is part of the equation.
BDSM games can be a fun way to spice up your sex life as well as an easy way to try out BDSM play. As long as everyone is on board and in agreement about the experience you are trying to create, BDSM games can help you reach new lusty heights or even just give you a fun shared memory. Much like anything else you do in the bedroom, these games are a way for you and your partner to bond and enjoy one another, so remember to keep the pressure low and the playful curiosity high!
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