Years ago, sexuality was a subject not to be discussed in public. If sexuality was taboo, you better believe that toys of a sexual nature were thought of in the same way. That’s just the thing, we’ve come a long way in terms of removing the puritanical stigma that existed around sexuality for several generations. Far from feeling guilty, many have taken to talking about the subject more openly than ever, and yet, there’s still some shyness lurking about. Well, sex-ed is in session, and we’re about to answer some questions you might have pertaining to grown up toys.
There are so Many Different Toys, Where Should I Begin?
Believe it or not, a vibrator is the most ideal toy to start with. You can experiment with the different speeds and grow a palate for what you enjoy most.
Should I Tell My Partner?
Absolutely. The most important rule in any relationship is “no gods, no masters.” It’s a two-way street. If you feel they might be a little apprehensive, explain that toys don’t replace human companionship, and that masturbation is healthy for physical and mental well-being.
Should I Get Them Involved?
Yes! Talk with one another first, and understand that they’re to stimulate the overall experience and not replace it. Then, you both can find a common ground as far as the next purchase is concerned.
Is It Awkward to Get A Sex Toy for Your Partner?
Not at all, if anything, it’s a very personal present that shows that not only do you care about their needs, but that you trust them to find a release. It’s never too late to learn how to love yourself, or help other open a new door to their sexuality.
Can You Overuse a Toy?
Much like the old urban legend of growing hair on your palms or blindness caused by masturbation, there are no long-term side effects. A masturbation habit is healthy, normal, and practiced by several people.
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